Tuesday, July 30, 2013

.::. Chikey's Portraits .::.

Got a new lens for portraits and used it on Chikey some weeks ago. The photos turned out pretty nice, and they are the rare pictures of Chikey smiling. Chikey hates having his picture taken, so it's quite an accomplishment. Chikey has grown so quickly!

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He's such a loving darling. I miss him all the time and can't wait to come home everyday. The home will not be the same without him.

Wednesday, July 24, 2013

.::. This & That - Neighborhood tales .::.


The husband and I eat at the hawker center often ever since we moved in together. I love hawker centers and wet markets, perhaps it’s because it was a big part of my childhood. I used to go to the market together with my grandmother, happily pushing the trolley along. Grandma has many friends and the market is so lively with everyone greeting each other, chatting. It used to be really wet and smelly, there were even live chickens then. Then I would eat vegetarian beehoon at the hawker, sometimes looking after the purchases as grandma go get more stuff.  She would cook everything from scratch, and there’s particular stores where she will get things like spices and curry powder.

These are heartwarming scenes from my childhood and seeing how all the old folks seem to know each other at the hawker center warms my heart. They always seem to bump into each other and look so happy to see someone familiar. Sometimes a big group of old people would gather and eat together, chatting away. I was telling the husband how nice it was and how those aunties seem so happy to see their friends. He was laughing and telling me how it would happen to me when I’m old like them. Not long after, we bumped into our neighbor and the exact same thing happened to me – I was smiling and chatting with them. Looks like I didn’t have to wait till I’m old. These are things that I love about neighborhoods, things that don’t seem to happen in private estates.

On the other end of the spectrum, I witnessed a couple arguing fiercely over breakfast that day. They were a Cantonese couple and looked quite old, over 60. The wife went on and on, scolding the husband for saying something infront of others, saying how he is childish and like a child and needs to change, telling him how he should mind his own business among other things. She never stopped and really put down the husband like he’s not worth anything. The husband did retort, telling her that it’s his mouth and he’s not saying it to her, asking her to mind her business and to stop screaming so loudly unless she wants the whole world to know. It angered the wife more and she went on even louder till the husband stormed off.

Whenever I see couples arguing I would wonder why is there a need to say such harsh things and hurt each other. Didn’t every couple start from falling in love? I wonder if it’s true that couples become more childish and argue more when they become old. It makes those loving old couples who are still holding hands look like a miracle. Why don’t couples communicate more and be each other’s support as they grow old together? I’ve a colleague who yearns to be posted overseas to do things she likes and far away from her husband, because she finds him boring and uninterested in everything. Then there’s this couple staying nearby who’s always arguing, from during renovation right till now. Their arguments are so violent, screaming at each other and hurling hokkien vulgarities that I could hear clearly from my place even when I close my main door.

Things like these make me wonder, how will we end up 10 or 20 years from now. Will we still be loving and cherish each other or will we start biting each other’s head off?

During such times of reflection, I make a mental note to constantly put in effort to communicate with the husband, be his pillar of strength and to remember why we fell in love and what we like about each other. No harsh words during arguments, no putting each other down and discounting each other’s feelings, no blaming each other and always try to understand each other’s point of view first. Time-out if need be, but strictly no harsh words as scars stay and take a long time to fade away. Must remember not to start screaming away and make home a stressful place to come back to!

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

.::. Chikey turns one .::.

It wasn't too long ago when we brought Chikey home. He was that little puppy, very loving and extremely playful and insecure when we were out. Before we know it, he's already one-year-old and officially an 'adult'.

Didn't have much of a celebration but the friends gathered for dinner and Chikey's best friend came to join him. I baked Chikey a little carrot cake with cream cheese and he happily gobbled it up.

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Here's Chikey, having to stay down before he gets the signal to eat.

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And here's Rugby, Chikey's best friend.

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Chikey is all big and handsome now.

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Sometimes, Chinook comes by and I try to bring them for a walk together.

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Other days, he's faithfully waiting at the door for either of us to be back.

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Oh, he has a fat butt. Chinook sits very gracefully with his butt just touching the floor while Chikey sprawls on the floor.

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I iron the husband's clothes every Sunday and he usually stays with me and guards the door.

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And someday, when the weather's fine, he gets his favorite walks. If he's lucky, Rugby comes to join him.

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That pretty much sums up the life of Chikey. Other times, he's comfortably curled up on his bed.

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And this is him on his birthday present that daddy got him.

Sunday, July 14, 2013

.::. Million-dollar View .::.

Everytime I go over to the neighbor's place, I get out of the lift and stare at the view in awe.

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This view is going to fetch quite abit of money in a few years time.  Units with this facing and at least 30 stories high would enjoy this view. It's really windy and makes you feel like you're floating above it all. I love the sunset and varying twilight. And this was taken with an iPhone!

Someday, home would be a penthouse with a great view and a lap-pool downstairs. Just imagine waking up to such a view and enjoying the breeze everyday.

One can just dream, right?


Saturday, July 13, 2013

.::. Sky .::.

Many years ago, I read a comment in a NDP book. It said how Singaporeans forget to appreciate the things we have, and how most of us do not even lift our heads up to look at the beautiful sky.

It made so much sense to my young mind, and made me think deeper into life and they type of lifestyle I would like in the future.

Since then, I always looked at the skies. I especially love the sunrise and sunset, and Tuas seem to somehow have the fluffiest clouds. I love it when the sky is purple and pink after my evening swim and how the clouds are so beautiful when I look out of my office windows.

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Do you look at the skies and appreciate the things around you?

Tuesday, July 9, 2013

.::. The Hen's Night .::.


This is ridiculously belated, but I still want to spend some time to put this down.

The girls organized a ‘hen’s night’ for me before the wedding.  I was not that keen truth to be told.  I was simply caught up with settling into the house, getting the wedding details finalized and preparing everything. We had to plan something though, since Ju flew back from the States just for my wedding. *touched*  The initial plan was to have a staycation in Singapore, but somehow that seemed boring and they suggested Batam.  Well, not that interesting either but massage and some relaxation sounded like a good idea and I specifically requested nothing wild, nothing too exciting! After all, I have been legally married for more than a year and I feel so married!

The girls made all the arrangements and I had no clue what’s going on.  We stopped at Batam Center, did massage, had lunch, and did grocery shopping before heading to the hotel.  By the time we reached the hotel, it was almost dark.  The reception was still grand even when it was almost pitch dark.  I can vaguely see the horizon in the darkening sky, and the whole place was airy, with really good service.

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We were brought to our villa by a buggy.  And once I stepped in, I just kept woah-ing and woo-ing.  The villa was really amazing, with a huge living area complete with TV and cooking area, a private pool, huge bed, huge bathroom and bathtubs and a rooftop garden.  

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The girls cooked for me while I concussed on the huge comfy bed.  I woke up to a home-cooked dinner and we spent time in the pool till the wee hours.  

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The girls prepared this package of my favorite stuff complete with wands and tiaras. I managed to soak in the tub for awhile, before masking our legs and face.

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It was so good, yet too short! Knowing me, it’s probably the best bachelorette night one can ever prepare for a boring bride like me.  =)

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Montigo, I will be back!